Losing a loved pet is never an easy decision. However, losing a pet around the holidays can be especially hard. This is especially true when faced with the difficult decision to euthanize your pet around the holidays. How do you manage emotions in a holiday season that is supposed to be joyful and lighthearted?

Pet Loss and Holiday Grief

It may surprise you to learn that Christmas sees an increase in euthanasia. Many pet owners wait until the last holiday season to spend time with their pets before letting them cross the rainbow bridge. This is also when most of their family members can be with them during the transition.

It doesn’t matter what reason it may be, and it is not easy. You can be gentler with yourself without losing the vital emotional healing process.

You Can Change Traditions If You Need To: If hosting large parties or holidays seems overwhelming, you can forgo it. Talk to your loved ones and family about how much hosting can be overwhelming. They will be happy to host or talk about delegating certain tasks like gift exchanges and cooking. Traditions are important, but it’s okay to share the holiday events throughout the year.

Remember Your Pet with a Special Memorial: In their memory, light a candle at the holiday dinner. Make pawprint ornaments and other memorial decorations. In the name of your pet, donate to an animal charity. You can preserve their spirit and keep them in your heart.

Let Yourself Be Hurt: It is hard enough to feel the emotions of losing a pet. You can cry if you feel the need. It would help if you allowed yourself to feel the loss to move on. There is no right time or the best way to grieve. You can grieve without guilt or hesitancy.

You Can Be Alone If You Want: This is the season to get together, so there might be some pressure to be more social than what you want. Talk to your loved ones if you don’t feel like being with people. Be sure to keep in touch with your loved ones not to become isolated.

Share the experience: Many grieving pet owners have found comfort in joining support groups for their pets or other support groups. You might find it helpful to share your feelings with people who can understand. You can take time to spend with friends, go on walks, shop, or go out for dinner. This will help you get rid of your emotions and the support you need.

Are you unsure if it is the right time to say goodbye? One of our veterinarians has an excellent video to help you make a difficult decision. I cried through the entire day as my pet was suffering one Christmas. It is a difficult decision.

These suggestions are meant to bring you some comfort during difficult times. It is hard to lose a friend you love. But it is possible to make the process easier by reaching out and being open to your feelings and needs.